Take the wind out of your sails


Meaning
This idiom describes deflating someone’s confidence, enthusiasm, or momentum, as if removing the wind that powers a ship’s sails, leaving it stalled. It conveys a sudden setback or discouragement, often used in personal, competitive, or professional contexts to depict loss of drive. The phrase carries a tone of disappointment, sabotage, or reality-check, reflecting cultural values of resilience and the human tendency to be derailed by criticism. Its nautical imagery evokes a halted journey, resonating in scenarios like arguments or failures. The idiom captures emotional deflation, making it a vivid metaphor for losing steam.
Origin
The phrase originated in 19th-century Britain, tied to naval warfare where ships stole wind from rivals’ sails to slow them, as noted in maritime logs. Its metaphorical use emerged in the 1830s, with *The Times* (1840s) using it for political setbacks. The idiom gained traction in the late 19th century, amplified by literature, notably in Herman Melville’s *Moby-Dick* (1851). Its spread was boosted by 20th-century media, especially in sports and politics, enduring in English-speaking cultures for its vivid imagery and relevance to discouragement.
Variants
  • Take the wind out of his sails
  • Wind out of your sails
  • Took the wind out of your sails
Examples
  • Her harsh critique took the wind out of his sails.
  • Wind out of your sails, the rejection crushed her confidence.
  • Took the wind out of their sails, the bad review halted the project.
  • Take the wind out of his sails, and he’ll rethink that arrogant plan.
  • The sudden loss took the wind out of the team’s sails.