Get cold feet


Meaning
This idiom describes becoming nervous or hesitant about a commitment, often backing out at the last moment, as if one’s feet grow cold from fear. It conveys anxiety or doubt, typically used in personal, romantic, or professional contexts to depict wavering resolve. The phrase carries a tone of apprehension, sympathy, or gentle mockery, reflecting cultural values of courage and the human tendency to falter under pressure. Its imagery of cold feet evokes physical discomfort, resonating in scenarios like weddings or risks. The idiom captures hesitation, making it a relatable metaphor for nerves.
Origin
The phrase likely originated in 19th-century America, possibly tied to gambling slang where ‘cold feet’ meant losing nerve, as noted in Stephen Crane’s *Maggie: A Girl of the Streets* (1893). Its earlier roots may trace to German idioms, but its English use solidified in the early 20th century, with *The New York Times* (1900s) using it for reluctant brides. The idiom gained traction through media and literature, notably in romantic comedies. Its adoption across English-speaking cultures stems from its vivid imagery and emotional relevance.
Variants
  • Cold feet
  • Getting cold feet
  • Got cold feet
Examples
  • She got cold feet and canceled the wedding last minute.
  • Cold feet hit him before signing the risky contract.
  • Getting cold feet, he hesitated to jump into the venture.
  • Got cold feet, they did, backing out of the deal.
  • Don’t get cold feet now; the speech is almost ready.