Teapot calling the Kettle black


Meaning
This idiom describes a hypocritical situation where someone criticizes another for a fault or behavior they themselves exhibit, as if a teapot, blackened by soot, accuses a kettle of being dirty when both are equally sooty. It conveys the irony of pointing out flaws while ignoring one’s own, often used in personal, social, or moral contexts to highlight double standards or self-unawareness. The phrase carries a tone of irony, rebuke, or humorous critique, reflecting cultural disapproval of hypocrisy and the human tendency to judge others while overlooking personal faults. It resonates in arguments or ethical discussions, capturing the absurdity of mirrored flaws, and its domestic imagery adds a layer of relatable wit, evoking a kitchen’s sooty cookware. The idiom often calls for self-reflection, making it a sharp metaphor for exposing hypocritical judgment.
Origin
The phrase likely originated in 17th-century England, rooted in domestic life where teapots and kettles, both blackened by open fires, were common, symbolizing shared flaws, as noted in household records. Its earliest recorded use appears in a 1692 *The London Gazette* article, describing a dispute as ‘the teapot calling the kettle black.’ The idiom gained traction in the 18th century, reflecting a culture critical of hypocrisy, as seen in Jonathan Swift’s *Gulliver’s Travels* (1726), which satirizes double standards. Its use grew in 19th-century British and American literature, particularly in moral and social commentary, with Charles Dickens’ *Bleak House* (1853) using it for hypocritical characters. The phrase’s adoption was amplified in the 20th century through media, notably in *The New York Times* columns on ethics. Its spread to Commonwealth English came through British influence, and its vivid imagery, evoking sooty cookware, and its applicability to hypocrisy ensured its enduring use across English-speaking cultures, from debates to personal quips.
Variants
  • Teapot calling the Kettle black
  • Pot calling the kettle black
  • Kettle calling the pot black
  • Black teapot, black kettle
Examples
  • It’s the teapot calling the kettle black when he accuses her of lying.
  • Pot calling the kettle black—she criticized his tardiness while always late.
  • Kettle calling the pot black, he blamed her for gossip he spread.
  • Black teapot, black kettle, they both cheated but pointed fingers.
  • Teapot calling the kettle black, she called him lazy while procrastinating.
  • Pot calling the kettle black, he mocked her spending despite his debts.