Hold your own


Meaning
This idiom means to stand firm, maintain one’s position, or perform competently against challenges, competition, or adversity without being overwhelmed. It suggests resilience and capability, often implying that one can match or exceed expectations in a tough situation. The phrase is used in professional, social, or competitive contexts to praise strength or independence, carrying an encouraging or admiring tone. It reflects cultural values of self-reliance and perseverance, emphasizing the ability to thrive under pressure without needing excessive support.
Origin
The phrase likely originated in 14th-century England, tied to physical or verbal contests where ‘holding one’s own’ meant defending one’s ground. An early use appears in Geoffrey Chaucer’s *The Canterbury Tales* (1387): ‘He held his own in the fray.’ The idiom gained traction in the 16th century, reflecting a culture of dueling and debate, as seen in William Shakespeare’s *Henry V* (1599). Its use grew in 19th-century British and American English, particularly in sports and politics, with Charles Dickens’ *Great Expectations* (1861) employing it. The phrase’s dynamic imagery and universal applicability ensured its spread, especially in contexts of competition and endurance.
Variants
  • Hold your own
  • Hold his/her own
  • Hold their own
  • Stand your own
Examples
  • She held her own in the debate, matching the veteran speaker’s arguments.
  • Hold your own against the new hires—they’re talented, but so are you.
  • He held his own in the boxing match, despite being the underdog.
  • They held their own during the crisis, keeping the company afloat.
  • Stand your own in negotiations; don’t let them intimidate you.
  • The rookie held her own, impressing the team with her quick learning.